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		<title>Are Christian Kids Indoctrinated?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 09:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rick Osborne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is part 2 of the video of Richard Dawkins, an avowed atheist speaking about why he thinks children should not be indoctrinated in religion.

The atheists accuse Christians of keeping their children cloistered away from other views and indoctrinating these young and impressionable minds as opposed to presenting them with a range of choices. Which [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is part 2 of the video of Richard Dawkins, an avowed atheist speaking about why he thinks children should not be indoctrinated in religion.</p>
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<p>The atheists accuse Christians of keeping their children cloistered away from other views and indoctrinating these young and impressionable minds as opposed to presenting them with a range of choices. Which they say is unfair to the children.</p>
<p>According to dictionary.com, the word ‘indoctrination’ means to instruct in a doctrine, principle, ideology etc. especially to imbue with a specific partisan or biased belief or point of view. It goes on to say that indoctrination involves teaching someone to accept doctrine uncritically and that a synonym for the word is brainwashing.</p>
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<p>Although there are some Christians who knowingly attempt to indoctrinate their children, most Christian parents do not, or at least don’t do it intentionally. Having said that, I do not believe that the Bible teaches us to pass our Faith to our children in a way that requires them to not question or reason, but to blindly believe and obey what we teach them. If we’re doing this, we need to actually listen to the criticism leveled at us, and change. Let me explain why I believe that.</p>
<p>Let’s start with a basic premise of our Faith. God put the ‘Tree of The Knowledge of Good and Evil’ in the Garden of Eden.  He allows each individual to accept or reject Christ and he also allows each person to live as they see fit, all because love always gives a choice. Logically then, how can we think that it’s right to ensure that our children won’t make the wrong choice by taking away their choice?</p>
<p>The Bible teaches that one of the keys to a deep and meaningful Faith is to seek God and to passionately search out truth. When we try to spoon feed our children a packaged truth and protect them from any objecting viewpoints, we unwittingly teach them that seeking and struggling for a meaningful relationship with God and for real understanding is not necessary. When we do this, we create another generation of unthinking Christians who remain baby Christians all of their lives.</p>
<p>Jesus taught that the Holy Spirit would guide us into all truth. (John 16:13) A guide directs someone who has already decided to go on a journey. How can the Holy Spirit guide our children to all truth if they’re not on a journey looking for it? If Jesus meant for our children to be only surrounded by truth and sheltered from all else, then they wouldn’t need a guide. If there’s only one clearly marked trail, what do you need a guide for?</p>
<p>Jesus said, “Let the children come to me.” He didn’t say to force them or to leave them no other choice.</p>
<p>If we look at Jesus as the example of how our children should be educated, here’s what we come up with. He knew God and the Torah well. He also knew what was going on around him in culture, in politics, in religion, in economics, in his country and in the countries close to him. He was a learned man who knew the lies that were being told in the world around him and who could support or refute what was being said by anyone with God’s Words.</p>
<p>Our willingness to teach our children without cloistering them away or demanding unthinking alegence says to the world that we know that we have the truth.</p>
<p>We can confidently teach our kids this way because we know that truth will stand up to the test and that God is able to keep and guide our children. It’s in doing this that we raise Christ followers – young men and women who seek God, search out truth, study their Bibles, become strong in their Faith, are able to share and defend their Faith and who will make a difference in their world.</p>
<p>When we as Christian parents teach our children a thinking, reasoning Faith we protect them from the doubts and arguements of the world and atheists by equipping them to enguage in the conversation and influence with truth rather than be influenced by lies.</p>
<p><strong><strong>(</strong><a href="http://rick-osborne.com/"><strong>RICK OSBORNE</strong></a><strong> / Christian Author, Speaker &amp; Bible Teacher)</strong><br />
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		<title>Wazzup? Moments</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 23:07:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian Parenting Daily</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you noticed that over the last decade family homes have become larger? It seems that over a period of many years, generally speaking, families have been retreating from the community and tending to spend more time at home. So the home, needing to be a place where you can spend a lot of time, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://christianparentingdaily.com/wp-content/themes/revolution_magazine-30/images/website_images/iStock_mom_daughter_small.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" />Have you noticed that over the last decade family homes have become larger? It seems that over a period of many years, generally speaking, families have been retreating from the community and tending to spend more time at home. So the home, needing to be a place where you can spend a lot of time, has become bigger. However, when homes grow bigger, separation and seclusion within a family can happen. Family members can all be home and never be together. They&#8217;re all in different rooms.</p>
<p>The home that I raised my kids in had many rooms, and sometimes I literally had to become a mini search party of one in order to find out where everyone was. I would be between tasks and hear the glorious but telltale sound of complete household silence; always glorious because there&#8217;s no noise, but telltale because the level of silence is a meter that gauges individual seclusion. Complete household silence usually indicates complete individual seclusion.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s when I would go on my one-man search party. As I found each child, I&#8217;d sit for a short time and engage him or her in a little &#8220;wazzup&#8221; talk. It takes only a few minutes, but it reconnects everyone to the family collective. The best part is that it doesn&#8217;t take long. You just need to take advantage of the minutes you have between tasks to personally connect with each of your children.</p>
<p>Another thing I did and still do to counteract individual seclusion and get in some quality family moments is to get some or all of us to seclude ourselves in the same room. If my wife and I are reading in the evening, sometimes we&#8217;ll grab our books and sit in the living room. Then we let the other family members know what we&#8217;re doing and they&#8217;ll sometimes grab their books and join us. I really love doing this because we end up laughing and talking and taking breaks together.</p>
<p>It takes only minutes to battle seclusion, but it&#8217;s worth it.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:51:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rick Osborne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Much of the time reading email forwards is just a waste of time. I find that my inbox fills up with them until I have to take an hour or  two to scan through them. The reason that I eventually put in the time is, because every once in awhile, I find a few that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><img class="alignleft" src="http://christianparentingdaily.com/wp-content/themes/revolution_magazine-30/images/website_images/iStock_mom_dog_small.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" />Much of the time reading email forwards is just a waste of time. I find that my inbox fills up with them until I have to take an hour or  two to scan through them. The reason that I eventually put in the time is, because every once in awhile, I find a few that are hilarious and/or inspiring and worth sharing with others. Here&#8217;s one such email forward that I&#8217;d like to share with you:</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>The Neighbor&#8217;s Dog</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">An older, tired-looking dog wandered into my yard; I could tell from his collar and well-fed belly that he had a home and was well taken care of.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">He calmly came over to me, I gave him a few pats on his head; he then followed me into my house, slowly walked down the hall, curled up in the corner and fell asleep.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">An hour later, he went to the door, and I let him out.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The next day he was back, greeted me in my yard, walked inside and resumed his spot in the hall and again slept for about an hour. This continued off and on for several weeks.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Curious, I pinned a note to his collar:  &#8217;I would like to find out who the owner of this wonderful sweet dog is and ask if you are aware that almost every afternoon your dog comes to my house for a nap.&#8217;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The next day he arrived for his nap, with a different note pinned to his collar: &#8216;He lives in a home with 6 children, 2 under the age of 3 &#8211; he&#8217;s trying to catch up on his sleep. Can I come with him tomorrow?&#8217;</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Unfortunately, as with most email forwards, this came to me with no links or author credits so I don&#8217;t know where it came from or even if it actually happened. However, it&#8217;s hilarious, and most of us can see it happening and can identify with it.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Some families give their kids &#8216;timeouts&#8217; when they&#8217;re misbehaving. Many times the misbehaving comes at times when the child is tired, hungry, frustrated, etc. and the time-out really just serves to settle them down so that they can be talked to and dealt with rationally.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">This email forward reminded me that parents get tired and frustrated from time to time and also need a timeout. It&#8217;s when we push ourselves past our own strength and run ahead parenting, even when we&#8217;re tired and/or frustrated, that we end up misbehaving towards or in front of our children. Every parent needs an exit strategy. Kind of like a fire escape plan so that you can get a little rest when you feel the need before you reach the end of your rope and parent badly. Here are some ideas:</p>
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<li>If you&#8217;re a full time, at home parent, and your spouse has an outside job, arrange for your spouse to take the kids for a hour when they get home to let you escape to what ever relaxes you (a bath, exercise, a prayer walk, etc.).</li>
<li>If your kids have nap times, coordinate the naps to happen all at once. Even kids who are older can have a &#8216;quiet time&#8217; in their room while their younger siblings are napping. Take some of this time and do something that relaxes you. Resist the temptation to spend all of this time doing chores. You being rested for your kids is more important.</li>
<li>If your kids take well to the stroller or riding in the car, get out and take a walk or a drive. Don&#8217;t have an agenda, just walk and/or drive to relax and maybe see some nice scenery.</li>
<li>Make time each evening, after all the kids are bedded down, to do something that relaxes you, reading, praying, chatting with friends online etc. Identify which activities recharge you and spend even a small amount of time recharging.</li>
<li>Plan a bigger timeout at least once a week. Get a babysitter and get out and about doing something you enjoy.</li>
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<p>What do you do to make sure that your batteries are recharged so that you can parent calmly and in control? Leave your comments, they could be helpful to another parent. We may not be able to follow our dog to the neighbor&#8217;s house, but with a little bit of planning we can keep ourselves rested and ready to go.</p>
<p>(If you know where the email forward originated, please let me know so that I can give proper credit.)</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The attached video is of Richard Dawkins, an avowed atheist speaking about why he thinks children should not be indoctrinated in religion. Part two will be attached to my next blog.</p>
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<p>Recently, there has been a rash of books written by atheists vilifying religion and blaming it for the woes of this world. One best-selling book generated a wave of controversy because it suggested that efforts be made to eradicate religion. The author also takes aim at parents who teach their children religion, calling it a form of child abuse.</p>
<p>Here’s their logic (as far as I can see it). There is no God. Humankind invented God and created religion. Religion is destructive in that it polarizes people, and therefore, causes wars and all sorts of atrocities. The reason religion continues to thrive is that religious parents indoctrinate their children. Therefore, stop allowing the indoctrination of children and the world will become atheistic and wonderfully peaceful.</p>
<p>First of all, let me touch on the things that I agree with. Humanity has suffered much in the name of religion. Also, there are some religious groups in the world that teach violence to their children. There are also many religious parents worldwide that indoctrinate their children, or in other words, tell them what to think instead of teaching them how to think. I agree that all of these things are inappropriate parental behavior.</p>
<p>However, the author in my estimation, has built a very flimsy argument when it comes to Christianity.</p>
<p>Yes, the history of Christianity gets demerits for violence, but to blame present day Christianity for the mistakes of those in the past who did wrong in the name of Christianity is hardly fair. That would be like calling for the end of today’s German culture because at one point it spawned misguided people who caused wars.</p>
<p>The very word Christian means Christ-like or follower of Christ. Everyone who has read the Gospels even once knows that Jesus promoted love, forgiveness, humility and godliness. He did not promote violence, war and insurrection.</p>
<p>The Body of Christ worldwide has come a long way and is a force for good on our planet. When a catastrophe puts people in harms way anywhere in the world, it’s the Christians and Christian relief organizations that dig the deepest and run to care. Millions of Christians and Christian churches worldwide reach out to help and love their families, neighbors and communities every day. These heartfelt charitable acts are a big part of what it is to live a Christian life.</p>
<p>It’s hard to study the history of Western Civilization without seeing the amazingly wonderful impact that Christianity and individual Christians, compelled by their Faith, have had on the world today.</p>
<p><span>For a great summary read this link:  <a href="http://crossandquill.com/journey/?page_id=267"><span>http://crossandquill.com/journey/?page_id=267</span></a></span><span> </span></p>
<p>Furthermore, what is it that Christian parents are teaching their children? If you examine the words in red (Jesus’ teaching), you’ll find that a large percentage of what he taught wasn’t about what we believe, but about who we are and how we behave. We teach our children to love, to be caring, kind, generous and considerate of others, to be involved in their communities, to be team players and to be respectful of others who have contrary opinions or beliefs. How can this be damaging to our planet?</p>
<p>Going back to the general arguments about religion being a planet damaging force, studies show that children raised in religion are happier, more other-focused, and less prone to get involved with crime and high-risk behavior. They even tend to exercise more, eat better, and volunteer more frequently.</p>
<p>(Check one of the studies here:  <span><a href="http://www.youthandreligion.org/news/preliminary.html">http://www.youthandreligion.org/news/preliminary.html</a></span><span> )</span></p>
<p>A brief study of history will show even the casual reader that things like political agendas, territorial disputes, racial differences and yes, even atheism (the murder of countless religious people in the name of communism, for the sake of the state) have been behind some of the greatest carnages visited on mankind. Should we forbid the teaching of politics, patriotism, property rights, racial uniqueness and atheism?</p>
<p>If your children are old enough, have a chat with them about what the atheists believe and are saying. Perhaps even let them read this blog and help them think it through. Our children need to know their Faith well enough that they can refute this kind of distorted logic when it’s leveled at them.</p>
<p><strong><strong>(</strong><a href="http://rick-osborne.com/"><strong>RICK OSBORNE</strong></a><strong> / Christian Author, Speaker &amp; Bible Teacher)</strong><br />
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If our experience is not what God wants it to be, it is because of our unbelief in the love of God, in the power of God and in the reality of God&#8217;s promises. (Andrew Murray)
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<p><em>If our experience is not what God wants it to be, it is because of our unbelief in the love of God, in the power of God and in the reality of God&#8217;s promises.</em> (Andrew Murray)</p>
<p>Here are two renditions of a portion of the Lord&#8217;s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-12) with very different perspectives on who God is. They are not meant to be a theological exploration of the meaning of the words in their original Greek. Rather, they illustrate that how we pray and what we expect from our relationship with God will reflect who we &#8211; and our children &#8211; believe God is, and what we believe him to be like.<span id="more-1111"></span></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Our perfect, caring, and loving Father, who is in heaven &#8211; a place that reflects your character, a place that is wonderfully beautiful, where there is nothing sad or evil, only happiness, love, peace, and joy. May your name be honored because you are so great and so good that everyone should know you and experience your love. Let your awesome and perfect kingdom, full of right and happiness, come here on earth and set people free to be with you and to be loved by you. Let your will for the perfect peace, happiness, and complete fulfillment of your people be done here on earth just like it is now where you are in heaven &#8211; that beautiful place where your people know you, are like you, love each other perfectly, and enjoy everything you&#8217;ve made for them. Please meet our needs today and take care of us as you always do so wonderfully. Forgive us our mistakes and imperfections as we receive your grace to grow, and as we love, accept, and forgive the people you&#8217;ve so wonderfully placed in our lives&#8230;.&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Our all-seeing Father, who is far away in heaven. Holy and beyond what we can understand or relate to is your name. Your kingdom come, to squash all who refuse to obey you. Your will be imposed on everyone, like it is in heaven, where everyone finally has to be perfect. Please give us some bread today, so we don&#8217;t starve. (I don&#8217;t want to bother you with more than that.) Please forgive me my sins (don&#8217;t let me end up in the hot place) as I forgive the rotten sinners around me&#8230;.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>It&#8217;s crucial: We must teach our children who God is, what he&#8217;s like, and what he is willing to do for them. That will affect how they pray. If our children don&#8217;t believe that God loves them, or if they somehow get the idea that he is always judging them to see if they measure up, the mechanics of prayer will not matter; the relationship and results won&#8217;t come. We need to teach them who God is and that he acts according to his character.</p>
<p>Three truths we can teach our children are: God loves them (1 John 4:16), is trustworthy (Psalm 9:10), and will forgive if they do something wrong (1 John 1:9). God is not a formidable judge; He&#8217;s a loving tutor who understands our weaknesses, loves us completely, will always encourage us beyond our failures, and will never give up on us.</p>
<p>God created us to be in relationship with himself. He wants us to know him, know what he is like, and receive his love.</p>
<p>When our children really understand who God is and what he&#8217;s willing to do for them, they won&#8217;t have a problem building a relationship with God and getting their prayers answered.</p>
<p>Here are two key verses that focus on the great love God has for us that you can read with your kids.</p>
<p><em>How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!</em> (1 John 3:1)</p>
<p><em>He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all &#8211; how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?</em> (Romans 8:32)</p>
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		<title>Answers To Your Kid&#8217;s Prayers</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 20:28:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rick Osborne</dc:creator>
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The best way to explain to our children how God answers or doesn&#8217;t answer their prayers is to draw a simple parallel between their asking us for things and their asking God for things.
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<p>The best way to explain to our children how God answers or doesn&#8217;t answer their prayers is to draw a simple parallel between their asking us for things and their asking God for things.</p>
<p>There are basically three answers children can anticipate when asking parents for something: <em>yes</em>, which may come with some stipulation or adjustment to the original request; <em>no</em>, which is usually accompanied by one or more good reason; and <em>maybe</em>, the category that most parental responses fall into.</p>
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<li>Our children make certain requests of us with the expectation of getting a <em>yes</em> answer &#8211; requests for things that they basically already know our will on. For instance, if we always let them have friends over on the weekend, let them watch a certain television show, allow them to have a snack at a certain time, or take them out for lunch after church, they&#8217;d anticipate a <em>yes</em>.<span id="more-976"></span></li>
<li>Then there are requests that our kids fully expect to get a <em>no</em> answer to. For example, if it&#8217;s an established family rule that we don&#8217;t have friends over on school nights, or that no one turns the TV on until homework is done, or that a big bowl of ice cream after school isn&#8217;t an acceptable snack, then if our kids asked us if we&#8217;d consider making an exception, they&#8217;d anticipate a <em>no<span style="font-style: normal;">.</span></em></li>
<li>Finally, there are a whole lot of requests that our children make of us that have <em>no predetermined</em> answer: Nothing in the past would help our kids anticipate with any certainty what our answer might be. They know that the answer could be either <em>yes</em> or <em>no</em>, depending on what kinds of things we consider in the decision-making process. For example, if a go-cart track had opened up a few miles from home and our children&#8217;s friends had gone there and had a great time, our children might well ask us to take them there. If they knew that we often took the family out on special outings similar to this, they&#8217;d have reason to hope for a <em>yes</em>, although they couldn&#8217;t be sure. After all, there might be factors that they&#8217;re not aware of that would cause us to say <em>no</em> or <em>not yet</em> &#8211; factors such as the family budget, other plans for the weekend, or safety concerns.</li>
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<p>This parallel holds true when our children request things from God. There are many things outlined in the Bible that God has already said he&#8217;ll either give us or agree to. For example, God has told us again and again that he&#8217;ll meet our basic needs &#8211; needs for food, clothing, shelter, and so on. And we know that he has instructed us, for our own good, to follow his principles &#8211; but he has also said that he&#8217;ll help us learn to follow those principles. So if we ask God to help us always tell the truth or be a better friend, or learn to say only kind things, or control our anger, we know that the answer is predetermined: it&#8217;s <em>yes</em>. We&#8217;ll call these prayers &#8220;<em>yes</em> prayers.&#8221;</p>
<p>There are many <em>yes</em> prayers outlined in the Bible. As we&#8217;ve discussed, the Bible helps us know who God is, what he&#8217;s like, and what he&#8217;s willing to do. That&#8217;s why getting to know and read our Bible is essential for developing a strong prayer life and a close relationship with God. As we get to know the Bible better, we&#8217;ll know more about what we can ask God for and anticipate a <em>yes</em>.</p>
<p>But there are also requests to which we can anticipate receiving a definite <em>no</em> from God, as the Bible shows. We&#8217;ll call these requests &#8220;<em>no</em> prayers.&#8221; For example, the Bible says that God is love and that we&#8217;re to forgive people who wrong us. Understanding that, we know that if we get really made at someone and pray that god will punish him or her on our behalf, the answer will be <em>no</em>.</p>
<p>The majority of things that our children talk to God about fall into the same category as the majority of things they talk to us about: they&#8217;re prayers that might get a <em>yes</em> answer or might get a <em>no</em> answer: We&#8217;ll call them &#8220;<em>maybe</em> prayers.&#8221; Occasionally the parallel breaks down here, unfortunately, because we&#8217;re less than perfect as parents. Our children may ask us for something that&#8217;s actually perfectly reasonable. Thinking just of them, we should give a <em>yes</em> answer, but the answer becomes <em>no</em> because to grant the request would greatly inconvenience us, or perhaps we&#8217;re just too tired to do the work required of a <em>yes</em> response.</p>
<p>Whenever our children ask God for something reasonable and there&#8217;s no reason that they shouldn&#8217;t have it, the answer will be <em>yes</em>. But as in the go-cart example, there are many times that a <em>maybe</em> prayer receives a <em>no</em> answer or a <em>not yet</em> answer from God because he knows the bigger picture: he knows how the answer will affect us, he knows our life schedule, and he knows whether a <em>yes</em> answer to this request would take us in the wrong direction. He knows what&#8217;s good for us and what isn&#8217;t, and what&#8217;s safe and what isn&#8217;t. God hears and responds to every one of our <em>maybe</em> prayers, but we need to help our children realize that he answers according to his greater knowledge of who we are, where we are, and where we&#8217;re going. But we can always be sure that his answer is in our best interest.</p>
<p>At some point your children might wonder; If all of this is true, then why pray? Why not just let what&#8217;s going to happen, happen? The parallel drawn earlier between your children asking you and them asking God will help you answer this question. Although your kids can trust you, if they never let you know what they wanted or expressed their interests and preferences, they&#8217;d end up missing out on a lot that you&#8217;d have been willing to give them if they&#8217;d talked to you about it.</p>
<p>Nothing gets by God. He knows what we need and desire, but because he gave us a will and wants a relationship with us in which we express our interests, preferences, and desires, he doesn&#8217;t automatically do things in our life. The New Testament writer James sums if up by saying, &#8220;You don&#8217;t have what you want, because you don&#8217;t ask God&#8221; (James 4:2). When it comes to <em>yes</em> prayers and <em>maybe</em> prayers, God wants us to talk to him and ask him for things, and he wants to do the things that we&#8217;d like in our life. It&#8217;s a partnership, a relationship.</p>
<p>Help your kids understand that, that is the way God set it up, and that&#8217;s the way he made it work. The more we talk to him and spend time getting to know him and letting him know what it is that we want and need, the more he does in our lives.</p>
<p>To further help your child understand who God is, I recommend the book: Talking to Your Children About God.</p>
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		<title>Strengthening Your Family&#8217;s Christmas Identity</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2008 21:59:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rick Osborne</dc:creator>
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When my kids were younger, every December as Christmas would draw closer, the ride to school in our SUV would get filled up with wacky Christmas songs. We&#8217;d take a non-sacred Christmas song like O Christmas Tree or Frosty the Snowman and rewrite the words to the song, often with hilarious results. (What&#8217;s a Seattle/Vancouver [...]]]></description>
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<p>When my kids were younger, every December as Christmas would draw closer, the ride to school in our SUV would get filled up with wacky Christmas songs. We&#8217;d take a non-sacred Christmas song like <em>O Christmas Tree</em> or <em>Frosty the Snowman</em> and rewrite the words to the song, often with hilarious results. (What&#8217;s a Seattle/Vancouver snowman? Three puddles!) Each year, we would sing the wacky ones we made up in years gone by, and then we&#8217;d start working out a line at a time on a new one for that year. What started out as a little bit of drive-time fun became a wonderful tradition. My children&#8217;s friends have even learned the wacky songs, and they&#8217;ve spread throughout the school.</p>
<p>Quite a few of the things that happened in our family as a result of taking advantage of available moments have become repeats, or when associated with special days, traditions.<span id="more-940"></span></p>
<p>When you make an effort to use the moments (between all of the busy moments), sometimes you&#8217;ll strike gold! When something you do clicks with your family, and love and laughter happens, if appropriate, make an  effort to repeat it. As you do, traditions and memories will develop. This not only makes your family a more pleasant place to grow up, but it also enhances your unique family identity.</p>
<p>Every person has a unique identity; different countries have unique identities; different churches do as well. We don&#8217;t tend to think of families this way, but it&#8217;s also true of them. All of the fun moments and traditions and habits mixed together with the unique combination of personalities in your family all contribute to  make up your unique family identity. When your family identity is strong and happy, your children&#8217;s sense of family and belonging will tend to be stronger. It&#8217;s when the identity is weak or negative that our children are more prone to look elsewhere for their identity.</p>
<p>So this Christmas when you find the moments, the simple and fun things that work in your family &#8211; the gold &#8211; add them to your family&#8217;s identity. If you have traditions that are easy and wonderful from years gone by, bring them up in conversation and/or cause a repeat.</p>
<p>Just for fun, I&#8217;ve included one of my family&#8217;s wacky Christmas carols. A little background first. The song &#8216;Oh, Christmas Tree&#8217; has always struck us as being a little TOO focused on the tree itself as opposed to what it represents. So we decided that we&#8217;d have a little fun with the downside of the Christmas tree. Please remember this is just a bit of fun. We love our Christmas Trees. After all, this is coming from the author of the best-selling &#8216;The Legend of The Christmas Tree. : ) Enjoy!</p>
<p>Oh Christmas tree, Oh Christmas tree<br />
Oh how your pine needles annoy me<br />
They fall on the carpet and they rot<br />
In my vacuum they get caught<br />
Oh Christmas tree, Oh Christmas tree<br />
Oh how your pine needles annoy me</p>
<p>Oh Christmas tree, Oh Christmas tree<br />
Oh what a fire hazard you can be<br />
Your branches all dry up and die<br />
Just one spark and they would fry<br />
Oh Christmas tree, Oh Christmas tree<br />
Oh what a fire hazard you can be</p>
<p>Oh Christmas tree, Oh Christmas tree<br />
I&#8217;m thinking of replacing thee<br />
I&#8217;ve had my eye upon a fake<br />
But with it comes a huge fruitcake<br />
Oh Christmas tree, Oh Christmas tree<br />
I guess for now i&#8217;m stuck with thee</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been a Great year and on behalf of the staff of Christian Parenting Daily, I want to thank you for your support and involvement! Have a VERY MERRY Christ-centered Christmas with lots of fun family moments!</p>
<p>Rick Osborne and family.</p>
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		<title>10 Commandments for Kids</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is a great blog written by our friend over at &#8220;The Greatest Mission Trip You&#8217;ll Ever Take&#8221;.  Deb Burton does a wonderful job putting a &#8216;positive&#8217; spin on the Ten Commandments for your kids.  
Check it out here.
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<p>Check it out <a href="http://thegreatestmissiontrip.blogspot.com/2008/10/positive-spin-on-ten-commandments.html">here</a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[SYNOPSIS: After hundreds of lonely years of doing what he was built for, Wall-E (short for Waste Allocation Load Lifter Earth-Class) discovers a new purpose in life (besides collecting knick-knacks) when he meets a sleek search robot named Eve. Eve comes to realize that Wall-E has inadvertently stumbled upon the key to the planet&#8217;s future, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/rickosborneco-20/detail/B0013FSL3E"><strong><img class="alignleft" src="http://christianparentingdaily.com/wp-content/themes/revolution_magazine-30/images/website_images/WalleLarge.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="209" /></strong></a><strong>SYNOPSIS:</strong> After hundreds of lonely years of doing what he was built for, Wall-E (short for Waste Allocation Load Lifter Earth-Class) discovers a new purpose in life (besides collecting knick-knacks) when he meets a sleek search robot named Eve. Eve comes to realize that Wall-E has inadvertently stumbled upon the key to the planet&#8217;s future, and races back to space to report her findings to the humans (who have been eagerly awaiting word that it is safe to return home). Meanwhile, Wall-E chases Eve across the galaxy.</p>
<p><strong>GENRES:</strong> Kids/Family and Animation</p>
<p><strong>TIME:</strong> 1 hr. 37 minutes</p>
<p><strong>RATED:</strong> G</p>
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<p><strong>OUR THOUGHTS ON THIS MOVIE</strong></p>
<p>(Recommended Age Group: all ages)</p>
<p>We really enjoyed this movie, however after seeing the obese humans on their hover couches, a few of us were thinking that perhaps a little exercise would do us some good. Although you can glean that message from the movie, (too much couch potatoing and computer chair potatoing can lead to obesity), that&#8217;s not the message of the movie.</p>
<p>The movie contrasts the love relationship between two hard working robots with the humans of the future who have become so linked into entertainment, social media and gaming that they&#8217;ve all but forgotten what it&#8217;s like to have face to face interpersonal relationships. Wall-E causes a woman&#8217;s holographic computer screen to disengage and she seems to see the world around her for the first time. The same happens with a guy named John and when the two of them meet and accidentally hold hands (something the screen writers use as a wonderful symbol of personal interaction and relationship), they look like they&#8217;re discovering something foreign but wonderful.</p>
<p>There are some great talking point opportunities in this movie. Here are a few:</p>
<p>Discuss how the movie is not saying that TV, gaming and the internet are bad, it&#8217;s saying that interpersonal relationships are better. Discuss why they&#8217;re better and what kind of balance we should look for.</p>
<p>Wall-E, after being alone for hundreds of years, recognizes the value of another person&#8217;s company, attention and love and he&#8217;s willing to put in the effort and work it takes to get it. Discuss how valuable the relationships in our lives can be and how we need to put time, love and effort in if we really want them to be rewarding.</p>
<p>Jesus said that the two greatest commandments are to love God and to love others. Discuss how since God is love and therefore completely unselfish, what he tells us is always for our own good not his. Therefore, the two things that he says are most important, must hold the two greatest blessings as well. Loving growing relationships with God and others (interpersonal relationships) are truly the greatest gifts and rewards this life has to offer.</p>
<p>The movie is a good reminder to us parents as well. Limiting and or nagging our kids about time in front of objects with screens is perhaps not as effectual as teaching them about the wonders of relationships and encouraging them to spend more face-to-face time. If your older kids tell you that they&#8217;re doing that through the internet, let them know that that&#8217;s great, but not the same. Like Wall-E showed us, if you can&#8217;t hold the other person&#8217;s hand (connect with them person to person) it&#8217;s just not the same level of relationship.</p>
<p>If your kids are very young and they don&#8217;t like being moved out from in front of their screened instruments, try drawing them away with some planned relational time with you. Young children learn the value of interpersonal relationships by experiencing the joy of hanging out with their parents and receiving their attention.</p>
<p>This movie is a keeper and would make a great Christmas <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/rickosborneco-20/detail/B0013FSL3E">present</a>.</p>
<p>The soundtrack is also amazing and a recommended <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/rickosborneco-20/detail/B0017LFKMY">purchase</a> for great family music. Here&#8217;s what Wikipedia says about the soundtrack.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;WALL-E is the soundtrack to the film of the same name, mainly composed by Thomas Newman and released on June 24, 2008. Orchestration is credited to Carl Johnson, JAC Redford, Thomas Pasatieri, and Gary K. Thomas. Newman previously scored Finding Nemo; almost all other Pixar films have been scored by Newman&#8217;s cousin Randy. The soundtrack features excerpts from &#8220;Put On Your Sunday Clothes&#8221; and &#8220;It Only Takes a Moment&#8221; (both sung by Michael Crawford) from the Hello, Dolly! soundtrack, and &#8220;La Vie en Rose&#8221; by Louis Armstrong, as well as an original composition, &#8220;Down to Earth&#8221; by Peter Gabriel. Also featured are the classical pieces &#8220;Also Sprach Zarathustra&#8221; and &#8220;The Blue Danube&#8221;, famous by their appearance on the soundtrack of 2001: A Space Odyssey. Neither Etta James&#8217;s cover of the song, At Last, nor Aquarela do Brasil which were used in the theatrical trailers appeared on the final cut of the film or the soundtrack.&#8221;</em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[(Added note: We apologize to readers who have thought that we at Christian Parenting Daily are agreeing with or condoning this sign. We DO NOT agree with this sign or the people who wrote it. Our purpose for posting this blog is to give Christian parents the Biblical framework they need in order to have [...]]]></description>
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<p>We&#8217;ve been hearing a lot in the news about churches posting negative signs about President Elect Obama. One reads &#8220;Obama, Osama, hmm, are they brothers?&#8221; It hit the news and the pastor said that he was just trying to get people thinking. A conversation starter of sorts.</p>
<p>We heard about the latest one from Rick Sanchez on CNN. A church put these words on a large marque sign outside the front of their church, &#8220;America we have a Muslim President, this is a sin against the Lord, Ex. 20:3.&#8221;</p>
<p>Needless to say, it&#8217;s causing a stir. Although we do not and cannot agree with or condone the sign, we at Christian Parenting Daily think that this news story can be a conversation starter for Christian parents and their older kids.</p>
<p>Here are some talking points:</p>
<p>The sign uses the Biblical reference Exodus 20:3 which is the second commandment &#8220;Do not worship any other God&#8217;s besides me.&#8221; Do you think that America has violated this command by electing Obama?</p>
<p>Jesus derided the religious/political leaders of his day because they claimed to be following God but were not. However, he used their own written teachings and a special revelation from God about what their heart&#8217;s looked like to confront them, not suspicion and hearsay. Do you see a difference here?</p>
<p>Next, Obama himself has repeatedly said that he is a Christian and not a Muslim. Many Christians feel that the church Obama attended for many years has some funny ideas but it&#8217;s still a Christian church. Some people believe that Obama cannot be a Christian because of his stand on issues such as abortion. What do you think?</p>
<p>Did you know that President Lincoln was a Christian when he was elected but it wasn&#8217;t until years later during the civil war that he really became passionate about prayer and his Faith in God? Do you think a person can be a Christian but still have wrong ideas or make mistakes?</p>
<p>How do you think this verse should apply to this situation? &#8220;But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,&#8221; (1 Peter 3:15)</p>
<p>The Apostle Paul wrote these words when the wicked emperor Nero was ruling the Roman Empire , &#8220;I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone&#8211;for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth. (1 Timothy 2:1 &#8211; 4)</p>
<p>No matter who you voted for, Obama is now the President Elect. What do these inspired Bible verses penned by Paul show us that we should do now? Why?</p>
<p>Have a great discussion and remember it&#8217;s better and more effective to help your kids think through the issues critically and Biblically then it is tell them how to think.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the link to the news <a href="http://www.kansascw.com/global/story.asp?s=9359028">article</a> and <a href="http://rawstory.com/news/2008/Church_sign_Obama_election_is_sin_1117.html">video</a> on CNN.</p>
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